by Riza Shanti Lim
No more lonely Valentines
Hey singles! Stop wallowing on Valentine’s Day. Your happiness shouldn’t depend on others or on a bed of roses and a chocolate shower from that person you’ve been longing to find you.
Stop looking outside for love. Love yourself first instead. Develop and enhance your beauty, attitude and mind. Be that person you wish to attract and see what happens.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, they say. I agree with this. But let us all be realistic that physical beauty is of an essence too. Everyone wants to have a beautiful love partner. You know why? Because psychologically, it makes you feel worthy and more confident, and perhaps proud.
The first step to beauty is to have clear, glowing skin. Choose light organic skin care to moisturize your face and body every after shower. For women, refrain from applying too
much make-up. It will make you look older and unnatural.
Hair speaks about the condition of your health. Opt for natural shampoos and conditioners and avoid shampooing every day. Let that hair bounce gracefully. It will definitely catch some eyes.
Exercise pushes the blood to circulate better and is a good detoxification method. It doesn’t only make your body slimmer, it makes it look younger too.
Sleep is one of the keys to fighting aging. Make sure you get 8 hours of sleep a day for your organs to recuperate from the day’s work.
Hydration is an inexpensive way to make your dermis fairer and clearer, aside from its system cleansing effect. Drink at least 2-3 liters of mineral water a day. It is also one easy way to lose weight.
Hygiene is a crucial essential for both men and women. Smelling good and daintiness gains attraction. Be like a flower and intoxicate those bees around you.
Be cheerful and easy going without trying. Find humor in everything and smile a lot. Positive people draw a lot of fans because they are fun, usually kind, and intelligent.
Take time for yourself. Pamper and reward yourself whenever you get a good job done or whenever you feel you need it. Do not wait for others to do it for you. You should do it for you. Remember you are the only one responsible for you.
As guru Rajeshwari said: “You are your heaven and you are your hell too.”
Order those lovely bunches of flowers that you are wishing to have this Valentine’s and gift it to yourself. Travel to that romantic island, pack pretty clothes and bring a nice feel good book. There is nothing more appealing than a person who is wholistically happy and self-assured.
Namaste.
